
‘Cry’ by the Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater
Everyone is pondering motherhood today. After all, today is Mother’s Day. So here I am a mother of twins. I should know what motherhood is all about. But, do I? Do you? Most media shows the canned images of a woman cooking, wiping a baby’s mouth, or weeping as her children come home for the holidays. Is that motherhood? Sure, but that’s not all motherhood is about.
When I signed up for ballet classes at the age of eight, I had been inspired by seeing the Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater perform. I thought dance was (as an eight year old would say) pretty. I soon found out what a formidable force ballet and all dance forms could be. In order to get to that pretty ‘Grand Battement’ (high kick) you first had various, grueling practice sessions of pliés and tendus to do. I even had to learn French. What? All my little, child-sized brain saw was the pretty ballerina. Dance mothered me into knowing that everything requires hard work. It was a difficult lesson, but it was a lesson that still lives within me today.
As I parent my beautiful children and face the challenging behaviors that autism can bring, I remember the valuable lesson that the art of dance has given me. You do not get to the “pretty” until you put in the hard work it requires. Dance is a wonderful teacher and role model for motherhood. Now ladies…let’s keep dancing through the good, the bad and the ugly that parenting can bring. The “pretty” is always right around the corner. Happy Mother’s Day!
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